Are they The One?

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This quiz is designed to give you insight into the quality of your relationship. Is it a healthy one that can last the test of time or is it a toxic one that requires real proactive change? This quiz is based entirely on anecdotal and personal evidence. It is in no way scientific, definitive, or accurate. Ultimately, you are the best judge of yourself; if you're happy, let yourself be happy. If you're unhappy and you know that won't change, leave. You don't need any more reason or justification than that.

1/18 How old are you?

Under 17

18 - 21

22 - 25

26 - 30

31 - 35
2/18 How old is your love interest?

Under 17

18 - 21

22 - 25

26 - 30

31 - 35
3/18 How long have you known one another?

A couple of weeks

A few months

A year

Some years

10 or more years
4/18 Do either of you work?

We both do

Only I do

Only they do

Neither of us do
5/18 How integrated are your lives?

We live together

I have met their friends and family

We have been to each other's house

Our lives are unrelated
6/18 Describe your partner.

Serious, deliberate, genuine

Fun, casual, carefree

Intense, confusing, hard to read

Friendly, curious, humble
7/18 What is their effect on you?

They bring out the best in me

I am comfortable being myself around them

They have no effect on me

They have brought out both the best and worst in me at different times

I try my best to be what they want me to be
8/18 What is your effect on them?

I bring out the best in them

They are comfortable being themselves around me

I have no effect on them

I have brought out both the best and worst in them at times

They are always trying to please me
9/18 How well do they know you?

They know all my secrets. Every skeleton and kink

They know the important things

They know a few things about me

They only know what I've told them. I would be dishonest to protect their feelings

I am an enigma. They don't know anything about me. Not even my name
10/18 How well do you know them?

I know all their secrets. Every skeleton and kink

I know the important things

I know a few things

I only know what they've told me. Sometimes I think they lie to me

They are a mystery to me. I don't know anything about them. Not even their name
11/18 How intimate have you become?

Flirting (e.g. compliments, jokes)

Touching (e.g. hand holding, hugs)

Kissing

Sexual touching

Sex
12/18 How satisfied are you with your level of intimacy?

Extremely

Very

Somewhat

Not very

Not at all
13/18 How do you feel when you are around them?

Happy, Proud, Playful, Peaceful

Surprised, Confused, Excited, Amazed

Bad, Stressed, Bored, Tired

Fearful, Insecure, Rejected, Weak

Angry, Embarrassed, Frustrated, Critical
14/18 How do you resolve issues?

Yell

Physically fight

Calmly discuss and compromise

Ignore or avoid each other

Break up
15/18 What do their friends and family think about you?

They love me

They think I'm okay

They're hot and cold

They don't like me

They hate me
16/18 What do your friends and family think about them?

They love them more than me :/

They think they're okay

Sometimes they get along and other times, they don't

They don't like them

They hate them
17/18 Are you hoping for a positive result from this test?

Yes!

Kind of

I don't care

Not really

Not at all
18/18 Thanks for doing my quiz :) how did you find it?

Interesting

Boring

Too short

Detailed

Stressful

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Are they The One?

1/18 How old are you?

2/18 How old is your love interest?

3/18 How long have you known one another?

4/18 Do either of you work?

5/18 How integrated are your lives?

6/18 Describe your partner.

7/18 What is their effect on you?

8/18 What is your effect on them?

9/18 How well do they know you?

10/18 How well do you know them?

11/18 How intimate have you become?

12/18 How satisfied are you with your level of intimacy?

13/18 How do you feel when you are around them?

14/18 How do you resolve issues?

15/18 What do their friends and family think about you?

16/18 What do your friends and family think about them?

17/18 Are you hoping for a positive result from this test?

18/18 Thanks for doing my quiz :) how did you find it?