Are Your Energies Balanced?

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We are all built upon dualities - two eyes, two arms, two legs, two brain halves and two energies complimenting each other. Feminine and masculine, yin and yang, light and dark, fire and ice, the Warrior and the Goddess; the names vary, but each can be excessive or deficient, causing various problems and difficulties in our lives, and keeping us from growth and success. Are you too shy to stand up for yourself? Can't let go of control? It all can be changed! Take the quiz to identify which energy is off-balance in your life, and learn how to fix it!

1/10 You have been assigned to lead a project. How do you feel?

I need to control what everyone's doing at all times, otherwise I'll have a lot to correct.

I'm stressed, I don't feel great as a leader.

Duh, of course I was the best choice!

My bosses just want to humiliate me.
2/10 Your partner broke up with you. What are your thoughts?

Whatever, their loss. I'll barely notice their absence anyway.

I always knew I wasn't good enough...

All the bad things always happen to me!

I'm really angry with them.
3/10 How are you with deadlines?

I wait until the last moment with everything.

Strict deadlines ensure work being done.

They straight out wreck my nerves.

They're just approximates, I don't really follow them.
4/10 Your friend is unhappy in their marriage, thinking of divorce; they message you, asking for advice. You:

Think that your friend and their spouse are incompetent if they can't make things work. Besides, an oath is an oath - it's for life!

You're way too uncomfortable giving any specific advice, you don't want to be blamed for any potential outcome.

...what message? You're not too great on quick replies with how much is going on in your own life.

You let the friend occupy your whole evening. And another. And another. It's hard for you to say no, they're in need!
5/10 You borrowed your friend a lot of money. It's time for them to pay you back, but suddenly they became elusive. What do you do?

You decide the confrontation is not worth the stress and try to figure out how to patch up that hole in your budget.

What kind of behavior is this?! So rude and unacceptable!

Terrified to ruin your friendship and ashamed you have to ask, you spend couple hours trying to write an appropriately polite message.

I deserve to be paid back - with solid compensation, obviously!
6/10 What would you like to improve in yourself?

You'd like to be more creative.

You'd like to be more confident.

You'd like to be more understanding.

You'd like to stick for yourself more.
7/10 None of those are pleasant, but which one would make you the most nervous?

Asking for a raise.

Being yelled at by a stranger in public.

Losing control.

Becoming unimportant.
8/10 You're invited to hang out with a group of friends. What do you do?

You're stressed about your outfit and what everyone's going to think about you.

You decide not to go in the last moment. You don't feel like it and that's more important than other people's plans.

You go, but sit in the corner and rarely speak.

You go and never miss an occasion to share your strong opinions.
9/10 You're happy when:

People respect the rules you established.

Something stressful gets delayed.

You get to act on a whim and get to follow your impulses.

Your mean ex turns out not to be at the same party after all.
10/10 In books/movies, you prefer the main protagonist to be:

Quiet and nerdy.

Bringing offenders to justice.

Adorably sassy like a true Hollywood diva.

Sacrificing themselves.

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Are Your Energies Balanced?

1/10 You have been assigned to lead a project. How do you feel?

2/10 Your partner broke up with you. What are your thoughts?

3/10 How are you with deadlines?

4/10 Your friend is unhappy in their marriage, thinking of divorce; they message you, asking for advice. You:

5/10 You borrowed your friend a lot of money. It's time for them to pay you back, but suddenly they became elusive. What do you do?

6/10 What would you like to improve in yourself?

7/10 None of those are pleasant, but which one would make you the most nervous?

8/10 You're invited to hang out with a group of friends. What do you do?

9/10 You're happy when:

10/10 In books/movies, you prefer the main protagonist to be: